OR to your love ones, or to that girl you always want to go out with, or just maybe LIVE LIFE.


Woke up to a Friday morning realizing that tomorrow would be the last day of November. I actually grinned at the thought that I’ll be getting my 13th month pay two weeks from now, Finally I’m rich again!
Feeling confident that I have a few cash to spend I checked my phone for my updates, I got a few work related (of course),  a whole bunch of paper works and bigger bunch of promises that was undone.
Yes! I have a pile of things-to-do that I haven’t done or even started doing  this year. My unchecked 2013 list has a lot of.. un-check?

Called my pal and started talking about the plans that we made last year, and he too has been complacent on his list, Honestly its just a simple list of things that I planned of doing  for my friends and family, its not like a rich-quick-plan or transform-your-boring-corolla-to-a-sports-car.

We found out, were just stressed..not primarily from work but of spending more time idling. Social networks, gadgets and primarily the technology invasion to our modern society. I found out I spend more time texting or chatting rather than meeting them.

I spend more time in front of the couch rather than going outside and playing some hoops, WHY? because I’m tired from work? Nah! I’m just not that inspired, there’s no drive at all.
I just don’t want to because in the back of my head there’s a couch, a tv, my laptop, my ipad and a whole lot of things that could entertain me.

I have been a modern couch potato, a gadget man- whore and a networking/chat lover.  I have to do something! Disgusted by my sloth y ways (pun intended);) I am now UNPLUGGING. YES! vacation from all the things that I deemed comfortable and easy.This is only for December though, I have a list of unchecked things to DO!

Like any man I know I can’t do this myself, I need support! a few persons I can call if ever google might try to seduce me; So whom did I ask?, well for starters,  this blog is  named as SHIN, SHII and YUNKAI right, so they are the first one on my list.

They were not in it at first, especially SHII who is a gamer, but I know I had to make them see how important it is, how personal relationship is much more important than the blogosphere, than you’re followers and chat mates that you’ll never going to see in person. That the person that is more important is the one that would lay out their time for you, palpable, breathing right in front your eyes. That is your network, your RELATIONSHIPS.

At the end of my inspiring speech they finally said yes, TIME TO UNPLUG! We set up a list of rules and of course a few exceptions, such as:

NO Yahoo Messenger or Skype
Texting is allowed at minimal; only for planning for meetings, hangouts or for responding, not as a way for conversation.
NO Instagram
NO Twitter
NO WORDPRESS or any form of blogging
No Yahoo news or any of that sort, UNLESS its for purchasing tours, trips or planning an event, community work or a hangout.
Watching television must be done only for watching news, if there’s a show or a game, a friend or family companion is a MUST.
Email, are for work related issues only; UNLESS for sending letters to close friends or relatives who are abroad.
CALL don’t just TEXT

And last one that Shin thought of adding to the list, WRITE A LETTER, instead of just giving a gift this holiday why not write a letter to that special person. (shin’s a bit of a hopeless romantic)

It’s past 1 pm GMT+8, I am unplugging after this post. I feel a dread, like a pet dying, or my first car getting trashed.

Bye for now wordpress, I have to reconnect and share stories with the people in my life first, then maybe I could reconnect with you once again.




LAST ONE NA TALAGA TO: Buod ko, Buod mo at Buod nating lahat

Taong beinte dose unang namulat
sa tunay na tamis ng isang pagliyag.
Ikaw lang saking mga mata’y nais na kamtin,
na tila ba isang talang marilag at nagniningning.
Pikit mata aking mundo’y sayoý umikot
ang mali naging tama at ang tamaý naglaho.
Matitinong mangingibig akoý lumayo,
dahil bulag na puso’y ikaw lang nais masamyo.
Dumaan ang panahon, pusoy nasugatan
utak ay nagalit pagkat nagtatanga tangahan.
Di man lang naisip na huminto at huminga,
mula sa pagkalugmok ay nais mamahinga.
Buwan ay pinalipas at unti unting namulat
sa nararamdama’y nagtatanong, nagtataka at nagugulat.
Datapwa’t wala ka na saking ala ala
pero bakit puso koý nakakulong pa pala.
Kahit na ba mukha moý di na maalala
tamis ng pagliyag koý nanatili at nagbunga.
Namaalam man ang utak at ikay nilimot
puso’y buhay, pumipintig, naghihintay, kumikirot.
Pagibig para sa iba di ko maibigay
kahit na ba naisin ko magmahal ng tunay.
Pagka’t aking nadarama ang isang pagsinta
na hahamakin ang langit, hanggat may mag bunga.
Oo, mali ako, mali tayo
at malamang di para sa isat isa
pero nais kong sambitin
ang tinatago ng damdamin at pagsinta.
Mahal kita, di dahil sa kung sino ka
Minahal kita pagkat nakita ko kung anong pwedeng maging ano ka
Mali man, ngunit saking mga mataý tila perpekto ka
At wala akong nais gawin kundi ikay alagaan at mahalin sinta.


Taong beinte trese’y dumating
at unti unting tumutulin.
Saking nakalipas akoý napapangiti, napapailing
Pusoý mulat, utak ay tahimik.. sa iba koý binabaling
Mahal kita, totoo yan, ngunit mahal kita sa ala ala
at sa ala ala nalang sinta.